Early Signs in Relationships That Could Predict Future Abuse, According to Study
In the initial stages of a relationship, it’s easy to overlook certain behaviors. However, a recent study from the University of Western Ontario highlights crucial indicators that may precede intimate partner violence. The study, featured in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, identifies non-abusive red flags that could predict potential abuse within six months.
Lead author Dr. Nicolyn Charlot emphasizes the importance of recognizing warning signs before becoming deeply invested in a relationship. The study, involving 355 participants, identifies 16 early indicators related to entitlement, control, arrogance, and emotional immaturity.
Key Warning Signs:
- Having sex despite not being in the mood.
- Feeling unable to say no to your partner.
- Your partner not admitting when they’re wrong.
- Comparisons to others by your partner.
- Negative reactions when you say no.
- Disregarding your reasoning or logic.
- Difficulty focusing on work due to thoughts of your partner.
- Creating uncomfortable situations in public.
- Acting arrogant or entitled.
- Attempts to change you.
- Lack of support from your partner.
- Criticizing you.
- Unrealistic relationship expectations.
- Avoidance by your partner.
- Disregarding your requests.
- Threats to leave the relationship.
These warning signs, though not exhaustive, aim to help individuals reassess relationships early on. It’s essential to note that victims are not to blame for abuse, and recognizing these signs is meant to provide support rather than assign blame.
If you notice a few of these behaviors, experts suggest slowing down the relationship, establishing clear boundaries, and considering therapy or counseling. Trust your instincts and seek professional resources if needed, such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline or RAINN.”
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