According to Dr. Alexandra Stratyner, Ph.D., a psychologist, it’s common for people to end arguments with quick phrases like “Who cares?” or “Calm down.” But she’s advising against it, stressing that these words can make things worse.
Instead of settling disagreements, these phrases often come across as dismissive and disrespectful, which can lead to more conflict and resentment rather than resolution, as Parade reports.
Ending an argument effectively matters for building relationships, Dr. Stratyner explains. She suggests phrases like, “I respect your opinion even though we disagree,” which keep things positive and show respect, according to Parade.
Another great option she recommends is asking, “Where can we go from here?” This approach shifts the focus to finding a solution rather than staying in a fight.
For a smoother end to disagreements, Dr. Stratyner also emphasizes three main tips: listening carefully, avoiding dismissive language, and working together to find solutions.
She shares with Parade that truly listening and showing respect, even in disagreements, creates a better, more understanding environment.
If we aim to solve the issue rather than blame, we create a foundation for stronger connections and fewer conflicts.
Credit : Parade